Um wow it all depends, really. I mean, I don’t know you, I don’t know a thing about your life and I don’t know what kind of person you are so I wouldn’t even know what to answer! But the person you should listen to is yourself. And the fact you’re already doubting whether you should keep the baby or not, says you’re not one hundred percent sure. And because having a baby is one of the biggest decisions you can have in your life, you MUST be 10000% sure if you want to keep it. Know that having a baby is not nothing! Basically your youth will be gone and everything will be different. It’s a major decision and as I don’t know you I can’t decide if you should keep the baby or not! But please be a hundred percent sure of your decision. Good luck lovely xxx Daya

:)

Tbh, all I can think of their relationship is just an “on/off” relationship. The girl hurts him emotionally, even though he loves her so much (and she’s so lucky). Then she’d break up with him then after 3 or 4 days she’d ask him to get back together. And since he loved her so much, he’d always say yes. I honestly get hurt but I never tell him. ~part 2

And it confuses me because he’d always say ‘I love you’ to me and would keep asking me about how many years should he wait for me so that I’d be his girlfriend.He even told me that he’d ask help from my brother. We talk everyday and we’d hang out often. People also suspect us as like we’re together but we’re not. We have feelings for each other but he has a girlfriend who’s not treating him right. ~part 3

I already want him but my parents said I should finish my studies first before having a boyfriend. My parents aren’t even aware that I’m friends with this guy. And all my friends are jealous because he’s like the perfect boy and a gentleman. But there are times that I feel used. I am totally confused and somewhat hurt. I’m also scared that his girlfriend might know about me and fight me :( Help me girls. ~part 4

Hi lovely, this sounds really complicated but I think I understand. You’re in love with that guy and because he has a girlfriend it hurts you (and even more because he says he’s in love with you as well). I understand you feel kind of used, because I think that’s what happening. He has a girlfriend who may not be treating him right but that’s not the point. The point is; he can do stuff with you because he knows you’re into it, and at the same time have that girlfriend who he really likes as well. It’s wrong to use two people like that and it should definitely stop. Tell him the thing that’s going on between you two definitely has to stop. Tell him to choose. It may be hard for him but if he really loves you more than his girlfriend, then he’ll choose you, but then it’s up to you to decide if he’s still worth it after the things he has done. Make him clear that he fully has to choose for you and fully go for you if he wants to, and if not it’s completely over. You can’t let him do that to you because it makes you feel wrong and it makes you sad. It may be hard if he doesn’t choose to go for you, but I guess you’ll have to get over it then. Just realise there has to change something and let him know. And it’s important to decide for yourself if you still want him because it’s not good of him to use two girls because he knows the two girls both love him! Good luck honey I hope you’re alright!

xxx Daya

ohh, how did you get the role then if you didn’t sign up for it? :o but well if you like being a leader you can always ask advice from other cheerleaders. And if you’re scared, I guess you just have to get over it! Practice a lot, be confident, have fun and you’ll be alright! :) 

Good luck! xx

Maybe you can talk to him about that? Together with your mom and other family, so he knows you’re not the only one who thinks he’s a douchebag? 

Before you go out with him or something I should really think about what you want from him, Do you want him to be a friend, or do you have deeper feelings for him?
If you only see him as friend, you shouldn’t give him false hope by going out together or something I suggest.

I hope you can figure it out!

x Liset

You probably fell in love with the guy he is in your head. And there is nothing wrong with that, it happens to all of us. You just need to remember that he might not be exactly the way you imagined him to be.

I think it’s a great idea to tell him how you feel, you might regret it later if you don’t do it. Maybe you can talk to him a few times, and flirt with him a little bit before you actually tell him the letter was yours.

Good luck!

x Liset

hiii, thats so sad :( You’re family doesn’t have the right to say that, its really rude. I think you should wake them up and tell them that you have serious problems. Don’t end it because you have a whole life before you, try to find something you really like and put energy in it. I know you can do it, try to think positive! ♥♥♥

x marlou