Tbh, all I can think of their relationship is just an “on/off” relationship. The girl hurts him emotionally, even though he loves her so much (and she’s so lucky). Then she’d break up with him then after 3 or 4 days she’d ask him to get back together. And since he loved her so much, he’d always say yes. I honestly get hurt but I never tell him. ~part 2
And it confuses me because he’d always say ‘I love you’ to me and would keep asking me about how many years should he wait for me so that I’d be his girlfriend.He even told me that he’d ask help from my brother. We talk everyday and we’d hang out often. People also suspect us as like we’re together but we’re not. We have feelings for each other but he has a girlfriend who’s not treating him right. ~part 3
I already want him but my parents said I should finish my studies first before having a boyfriend. My parents aren’t even aware that I’m friends with this guy. And all my friends are jealous because he’s like the perfect boy and a gentleman. But there are times that I feel used. I am totally confused and somewhat hurt. I’m also scared that his girlfriend might know about me and fight me :( Help me girls. ~part 4
Hi lovely, this sounds really complicated but I think I understand. You’re in love with that guy and because he has a girlfriend it hurts you (and even more because he says he’s in love with you as well). I understand you feel kind of used, because I think that’s what happening. He has a girlfriend who may not be treating him right but that’s not the point. The point is; he can do stuff with you because he knows you’re into it, and at the same time have that girlfriend who he really likes as well. It’s wrong to use two people like that and it should definitely stop. Tell him the thing that’s going on between you two definitely has to stop. Tell him to choose. It may be hard for him but if he really loves you more than his girlfriend, then he’ll choose you, but then it’s up to you to decide if he’s still worth it after the things he has done. Make him clear that he fully has to choose for you and fully go for you if he wants to, and if not it’s completely over. You can’t let him do that to you because it makes you feel wrong and it makes you sad. It may be hard if he doesn’t choose to go for you, but I guess you’ll have to get over it then. Just realise there has to change something and let him know. And it’s important to decide for yourself if you still want him because it’s not good of him to use two girls because he knows the two girls both love him! Good luck honey I hope you’re alright!